Maintaining patience during Ramadan is essential for Muslims as they engage in fasting, increased worship, and spiritual reflection. worship may be difficult in long days of fasting & requires patience, so learn to be patient this Ramaḍān
Prophet ﷺ stated in the Hadith collected by Muslim [223]:
"...Prayer is light, and Charity is a proof and Patience is illumination..."
Sh. Ṣāliḥ al-Fawzān حفظه الله إيمانه mentioned: "The obligatory and supererogatory prayer are light in the face, hence you find darkness in the face of those who are negligent of the prayer, as for those who guard their prayers then you find light and illumination in their faces.
Giving in charity is a proof upon the truthfulness of a person's Eemaan, since no-one will be generous with their wealth except a believer.
Patience is illumination, and it is 3 types:
1. Patience Upon Obedience to Allah:
It is binding upon the servant to persist upon worship even if it is difficult upon him, since worship is not easy. It requires patience. The one who prayers 5 times every day and the night prayer requires patience. As for the one without this type of patience he will not end up continuing with worship.
2. Patience in Staying Away from Ḥarām:
No doubt desires and the ḥarām are desired by the individual, however a servant remains patient and refrains from them and does not be misled by the great numbers of people who are following those desires and performing the ḥarām.
3. Patience upon Difficulties of the Decree:
A believer remains patient if difficultly overcomes him in his wealth, or in his own self (health etc..), or in his family or relatives. He does not become upset and depressed, rather he is content and patient upon the decree of Allāh."
Maintaining patience during Ramadan can be challenging, but there are several strategies and tips that can help:
1. Manage Stress: Find healthy ways to cope with stress and anxiety, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Seek support from loved ones or a professional if needed.
2. Be Patient with Yourself: Understand that it's normal to have ups and downs during Ramadan. Be patient with yourself if you make mistakes or fall short of your goals. Remember that Allah is forgiving and merciful.
3. Seek Refuge in Prayer: Turn to prayer and supplication during moments of difficulty or temptation. Seek refuge in Allah's guidance and ask for strength, patience, and steadfastness in your faith.
4. Practice Mindfulness: Be mindful of your thoughts, emotions, and actions throughout the day. Pay attention to the present moment and focus on performing each task with mindfulness and sincerity.
5. Remember the Rewards: Remind yourself of the immense rewards and blessings associated with Ramadan, both in this life and in the Hereafter. Keep your ultimate goal of pleasing Allah and seeking His pleasure at the forefront of your mind.
Take time to reflect on the spiritual significance of fasting and the opportunity it provides for personal growth, purification, and drawing closer to Allah. Remember that the challenges of fasting are temporary, but the rewards are everlasting.
By implementing these strategies and tips, you can cultivate patience and perseverance during Ramadan and make the most of this blessed month.